Everyday when I go to school I see my fellow classmates. I see friends gathered laughing before class. I see students conversing with teachers. Then I turn to my own group of friends and we get ourselves prepared for class. As we walk to our class my friend pulls me to the side and tells me she has “did the do”. What is the do? Sex.
I think to myself why? What is the purpose of sex at such a young age? I ask my classmate why she did it. She told me because she loved him. I ask myself why do teenagers believe that love is an excuse for sex. I believe that you can love someone without having sex. Maybe the real problem, I have with my classmates who are sexually active is that they say they are in love but they don’t understand the true meaning of commitment. If you were in love with someone you wouldn’t see anyone else but that person for whom they are. So don’t justify your incapability to say no to sex with love, because obviously love has nothing to do with it.
I often wonder that maybe I’m being to prude; but then I see a young lady who’s pregnant then I think to myself no I’m being honest. Teenagers are unable to make such grown up decisions as to who they really “love”. They confuse the feeling of infatuation with love and therefore think that the next step in the relationship is automatically sex. But in the Biblical days men and women didn’t even date. If a man liked a young woman he married her, the honorable way and they grew love after getting to know one another. Sex was merely for procreation and it should still be that way today.
However, society doesn’t feel the same way about sex that I do. But maybe they should, maybe if society stop looking at sex as a means of pleasure there wouldn’t be so many teen pregnancies, or STD occurrences, and other sex related mishaps. My point is love doesn’t constitute sex; so don’t use your twisted morals to justify your bad actions. Love does not and will not ever equal sex.
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